I see all these bulletins against abortion and how it is so wrong. Did anyone even stop to think that abortion could be a legitimate choice in a situation? What if the child is a product of forced incest? What if the child is a product of rape? Should that woman's life go down the toilet and be made into a constant struggle because of the wrongful actions of someone else? Should she be made to pay for the mistakes or another?
I can understand how people are against abortion as a form of birth control. If you're out there whoring yourself out without protection and you're using abortion as a means of birth control, then shame on you. If you are old and responsible enough to be lying down and doing the deed, either do it responsibly and be protected, take care of the child you have created, or don't fucking have sex!
I can say that abortion was the right choice for me. If i disgust you, that's fine. I chose to abort because i could not bear to carry a child in my loins for 9 months then give it to someone else as if it's not my responsibility. I chose abortion because i was told by a medical physician that i could NOT bear children and yet it happened anyway despite protection. I chose abortion because i knew at that time in life i could not give the child the life it deserved. Neither me or my fiance at the time had jobs... all the state support in the world wouldn't have been enough... our lives would have been over. We were barely feeding ourselves, let alone a baby. I chose life because i want my children to have everything that i never did when the time is right. I chose life because i want to be a good mother, not a struggling mother. I chose life because i would rather see my children grow up to be healthy and happy and not raised in a family of struggle, financial troubles and anger.
Don't get me wrong. I am not proud that i was put to such a decision. I will not flaunt the fact that i had an abortion, but choosing to have a child when you are not ready can be more detrimental to that child. If you are still a child yourself, how can you expect to raise another efficiently? To keep a child when you yourself are not ready to raise one can be a very selfish thing to do. You might keep it because you feel guilty over having an abortion. Well, 1 in 3 women have had an abortion for one reason or another, so you would not be alone. If you keep a child out of guilt then you are possibly lining them up for a VERY tough life. Maybe you decide to have a child because you feel you have no other reason to wake up in the morning and having a child would give you that reason. That is also a very selfish thought.
We all get second chances. Sometimes things happen as a lesson, and we need to learn that lesson and move on with our lives. I believe every woman has the decision for life or choice and no one is the wrong decision depending where they are in their lives. The only wrong decision is ending a child's life with no other reason than you were irresponsible and you fucked up big time. Abortion is not birth control. I admire the young mother's out there and i wish them all the best with the decisions that they have made, but i also ask they respect the decision i have made for the good of my unborn daughter. We make the best decisions we can given the information at the time.
I respect your choice, now please respect mine.
I can understand how people are against abortion as a form of birth control. If you're out there whoring yourself out without protection and you're using abortion as a means of birth control, then shame on you. If you are old and responsible enough to be lying down and doing the deed, either do it responsibly and be protected, take care of the child you have created, or don't fucking have sex!
I can say that abortion was the right choice for me. If i disgust you, that's fine. I chose to abort because i could not bear to carry a child in my loins for 9 months then give it to someone else as if it's not my responsibility. I chose abortion because i was told by a medical physician that i could NOT bear children and yet it happened anyway despite protection. I chose abortion because i knew at that time in life i could not give the child the life it deserved. Neither me or my fiance at the time had jobs... all the state support in the world wouldn't have been enough... our lives would have been over. We were barely feeding ourselves, let alone a baby. I chose life because i want my children to have everything that i never did when the time is right. I chose life because i want to be a good mother, not a struggling mother. I chose life because i would rather see my children grow up to be healthy and happy and not raised in a family of struggle, financial troubles and anger.
Don't get me wrong. I am not proud that i was put to such a decision. I will not flaunt the fact that i had an abortion, but choosing to have a child when you are not ready can be more detrimental to that child. If you are still a child yourself, how can you expect to raise another efficiently? To keep a child when you yourself are not ready to raise one can be a very selfish thing to do. You might keep it because you feel guilty over having an abortion. Well, 1 in 3 women have had an abortion for one reason or another, so you would not be alone. If you keep a child out of guilt then you are possibly lining them up for a VERY tough life. Maybe you decide to have a child because you feel you have no other reason to wake up in the morning and having a child would give you that reason. That is also a very selfish thought.
We all get second chances. Sometimes things happen as a lesson, and we need to learn that lesson and move on with our lives. I believe every woman has the decision for life or choice and no one is the wrong decision depending where they are in their lives. The only wrong decision is ending a child's life with no other reason than you were irresponsible and you fucked up big time. Abortion is not birth control. I admire the young mother's out there and i wish them all the best with the decisions that they have made, but i also ask they respect the decision i have made for the good of my unborn daughter. We make the best decisions we can given the information at the time.
I respect your choice, now please respect mine.
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